The difference between the two is that If you do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got!
As Albert Einstein said: "Problems cannot be solved by the same level of thinking that created them."
If you continue to do it your way, you are likely to get a repeat of the result.
Sometimes you need help from an external source or listen to 'the voice inside' to tell you to do something different.You don't necessarily have to agree with the solution but if you just LISTEN without being judgmental or defensive, at least you'll have a different perspective.
Ask yourself better questions and you will get better answers. Listen and you will get more options. Then go get what you want!
Happy New Year,
Bobby